Hallmarks of Intergenerational Worship TOOLKIT is designed to help you reflect and assess the levels of intergenerationality in your church’s worship services. The toolkit includes a 33-item survey and curated resources for growth. It offers churches a clear, accessible pathway for reflecting on their current practices and taking meaningful next steps toward vibrant intergenerational worship. (Designed by the Episcopal Church through a Lilly grant.)
Children in Worship: |
Praygrounds: |
One pager on practical tips of intentional engagement of children in worship from Pastor Janelle Hooper.
ELCA Worship Formation and Liturgical Resource entitled: How do we involve children in worship?
Ten Ways for Families to Engage Children in Worship - a two page toolkit from the Reformed church
**A Must Read!
The Gifts They Bring: How Children in the Gospels Can Shape Inclusive Ministry by Amy Allen. Allen looks to the past, rereading familiar Gospel accounts with an eye to the experience of childhood in Jesus’ world, highlighting both the gifts that children brought to Jesus’ ministry as well as those they received. 
**A Must Read!
Incorporating Children in Worship: Mark of the Kingdom - by Michelle A Clifton-Soderstrom and David D. Bjorlin This well researched books provides all the key background info for why children in worship is essential to ushering in the kin-dom of God. 
Pew Cards: 4 Approaches to Communicating "Children are Welcome in Worship"
Resusable Children's bulletin:
More than Just a Busy Bag: Helping Toddlers & Preschoolers Worship - "Participation in worship is a key marker for lifelong faith development, so how do we do this well for our littlest ones?
Here's are two great brochures:
(one) (two) from an Episcopal church explaining age stages and tips for having kids in worship. Also a lovely encouragement for communion as early as the child can take it. An example of a Children's Bulletin (Family Worship Guide) this one by Rev. Ware Jackson
Inviting Families to Worship - Read this two page practical scenario of what a young family might go through to check out a church. From the ELCA Evangelims team.
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Example from Christ the King Lutheran Church, Nashua, NH -
*hands-on/manipulatives, *kids tables and circle rugs - *children's bulletins *alphabet puzzles *bibles *puppets *felt Advent Wreath kits *felt Nativity kits (DIY). What other bits might you include? We have had two small wood trains - but those were fought over. Also have had these amazing foam blocks that look like wood (2 sets) and we just took those out to take a breather - will come back in likely in Epiphany. *during the sermon invite kids to a Creation Station. The station is equipped with craft supplies and the children create based on the children's sermon and then bring their creations up during the offering as their offering to God.
*Play dough,pocket or finger labyrinth, etch-a-sketch, or aqua doodle mats, play communion sets, use things from nature on their tables: pine cones, big shells, bark, smooth pebbles, feathers, dried or fresh flowers to touch and take apart
*some form of communal liturgical art piece - something like a link banner like this
Wondering about Wondering?? - Read this short article by DWELL to better understand the IMPORTANCE of wondering.
Including Children in Worship: A Planning Guide for Congregations by Elizabeth J. Sandell Gives a brief theological argument for children in worship, provides practical arguments, gives a detailed 4 week Adult Forum class on discussing the need for children in worship and even rebuttal statements for adult excuses.
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Children's Sermons:
7 Pro Tips for Children's Messages
- A two pager written by Pastor Janelle Rozek Hooper. Worth a look!
Also example videos below.
- A two pager written by Pastor Janelle Rozek Hooper. Worth a look!
Also example videos below.
Storypath - A website that connects children's literature with our stories of faith by providing concise but detailed book reviews. Extra bonus...it aligns with the lectionary and comes out WEEKS ahead of time so you can be sure to get the book from the library or buy it BEFORE you need it.
Feasting on the Word - "Pastors: Joining the Feast" curriculum is the first I've seen that offers suggestions on how to share the message for different ages of youth. It also includes a brief children's sermon as well as children's bulletin.
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In-person @min 30:20
Worshiping with Children blog - Including children in the congregation's worship, using the Revised Common Lectionary.
Dollar Store Kids Sermons - Find ideas using dollar store items or as springboard for your creativity.
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Beyond Children's Sermons- from Spirit & Truth Publishing. An intentional children’s time is a great opportunity to include our younger disciples in the worship service. However, it is too often the only time children are included. The solution: make this and (eventually) the whole service intergenerational!
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Intergenerational Worship:
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*GenOn's survey on the necessity for intergenerational churches. They believe that this kind of ministry is critical to healthy, thriving churches.
GenOn believes intergenerational churches are so necessary they have created a Visioning Tool for Intergenerational Ministry-This easy-to-use tool helps churches take a picture of current ministries and their inclusion of multiple ages, and create a plan to move toward being an intergenerational church.
Child Centered Worship Hear a 30 min podcast from Sparkhouse with Host Dawn Rundman who talks to Biblical scholar, professor, author and
mom, Amy Lindeman Allen about what it means when you take a “childist” approach, based on her book The Gifts They Bring. 
All Ages Worship: Shifting Language & Why it Matters from Building Faith
Barn Geese Worship - Lutheran pastors write approachable, inclusive resources to support creative preaching and worship. It is a little bit messy. Irreverently reverent. Held together by spit and Spirit.
Music That Makes Community - YouTube examples of songs that don't require sheet music, thus are good for intergenerational worship.
Worship Arts Drama 1
7 intergenerational dramas for use in worship. Plays can be led by children, youth, adults, or any combination of ages. Resource is downloadable and includes Best Practices of presenting dramas in worship and a Scripture index. |
Trauma-Informed Worship: Guidelines for Intergenerational Worship -offers compassionate strategies to ensure our services are healing and inclusive for every generation.
Intergenerational Worship Like Thanksgiving Dinner-At First Presbyterian the church has made strides toward intergenerational worship. They’ve boosted the participation of all ages at the Sunday service, launched a weeklong children’s camp on worship, started a church-band mentoring program, published a pew booklet on worship and held a churchwide worship workshop.
*For sure read about the Church-Band Mentoring Program; “You have to build a farm team, not leave it to chance that young people will be an active part of the church community,” Tornborg said. “If you want to get youth involved in Sunday morning worship, make them stakeholders.” *7 Keys to becoming Intergenerational by John Roberto
Roots & Wings: Intergenerational Formation Collaborative (R&W) is a five-year grant awarded to VTS by Lilly Endowment, Inc. through the organization’s Nurturing Children in Worship and Prayer Initiative. Our leadership team has chosen to focus our work on empowering congregations to practice vibrant intergenerational worship because we believe that a worshipping assembly incarnates the fullness of the body of Christ when all bodies across all ages participate together..
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Children's Chapel:
Basics of Children's Chapel By Sarah Allred for Building Faith
Story of the Woman at the Well - Storytelling by Pastor Jen Kindsvatter from Lutherhill Lutheran Camp in TX.
Consider "Flat Jesus", Mary Magdalene or other Biblical characters to journey with you as the Biblical story is told around your sacred space, ALL YEAR ROUND!
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Making Room for Everyone
More Stories for Building a Children’s Chapel - Bill Gordh presents a wide range of folktales from around the world, stories from different faith traditions, and great HOW-To's for children's chapel in general. The stories are presented to be told aloud, complete with storytelling tips and musical suggestions for each. (ages 3-11) 
Church Publishing Inc. - the Episcopal church offers Celebrate for children's chapel QUARTERLY. The philosophy of Celebrate encourages active participation. For example: Children do not want to be “consumers” of liturgy, but co-creators. An example can be found here.
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More Help:Children and Communion: A two page resource from the Reformed Church.
Head, Shoulders, Knees & Toes Blessing - from the Episcopal church
American Sign Language practice website.
Sign Language - Consider teaching the Lord's Prayer to young people who can than lead it in worship every week. You'll be surprised how it welcomes people of all ages and abilities into worship as well as sets the tone of welcome to anyone with special needs.
Say Hello - by Jack and Michael Foreman. Great for a children's sermon, encourage the whole congregation to consider again how universal it can feel to be left out and how simple it is to intentionally welcome. A spare, poignant picture book reminding us that when someone looks lonely and in need of a friend, one little word can help.
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Have a takeaway: It can be a physical take away or a reoccurring sticky theme..but you need to craft the children's sermon with the end in mind. Not everything has to be an object lesson but make your focus repetitive enough that what they learn sticks with them. Follow Pastor Melissa Florer-Bixler on her blog New Bread with concrete takeaways for intergenerational worship.
"Worship is more than songs and sermons, more than prayers and pews. Worship is how we become whole - that messy and miraculous moment when we are knit together into the Body of Christ. If any are excluded because they are too loud, too dirty, too wiggly, or too weak, we all suffer. Worship is not about our own comfort, it is not about our own experience - be it beautiful or broken - it is about God." from Pastor Karen Ware Jackson's website.
Simple way to invite children to share in the offering.
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